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I just couldn’t stand the fact that a man could just leave his wife and 2 kids for another girl, just like that. I know that I should not be getting involved in this but I just could not contain my emotions for the kids who are greatly affected and devastated psychologically.

Only a selfish and immature man could do such a thing.
I hope you realize SOON that what you are doing is so wrong and that when you come to realize
your BIGGEST MISTAKE, it is NOT YET TOO LATE.

hmp!

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I have always believed that whatever happens in our lives, it is somewhat being pulled together by a greater force outside this universe, who is greater than all of us. Whether we fail or succeed in everything that we do, we cannot completely blame it on ourselves. There is still at least 1% being attributed to that greater force. So, lucky you if that greater force is on your side, because you become lucky instantly. It’s like, whatever you do, it always becomes a success or it just always turns out right. And sorry if that greater force is not on your side. Even if you keep on trying to do everything you can with a positive attitude, you still end up not succeeding at all.

Do I sound like a pessimist? No. I’m just being realistic.

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I came across this comment on the topic Traditional vs. Progressive Schools at  mom.exchange.ph and boy, it really raised my eyebrows to the top! Click this link to read on.

I could not believe that this happens for real. Kids not behaving properly will be tied to their chairs in school? What kind of school is that?! And is that even called a school?

Schools should be fun not like this. Grrr.

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I hate chocho.

What’s chocho? Ipis. Cockroach.

Yes, it’s that creepy, yucky, dirty pest that has survived all the disasters in the world and is even believed to be the only species that would survive until forever! Eeew.

Like Badoodles in his war of the roaches, I feel so annoyed and even feel really tense whenever I see those creatures. Panic attack!

My nose has become sensitive to their odor that I could smell whenever they are near me! Gross.

Ano ba talagang silbi ng mga ipis? Bakit ba sila ginawa ng Diyos? Alam naman ng Diyos na ‘bad’ sila at wala silang ibang pupuntahan pag namatay kundi sa impiyerno lang.

So what is really their purpose aside from being one of the agents for decomposition? I don’t know! They even spread diseases like salmonella and allergies. So why are they here?

This is one of the major reasons why you can never let me join Fear Factor. I would die slowly if I’d be attacked by these incredible creatures. (himatay)

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My kids and I went to the clubhouse this afternoon for a quick play at the playground. Our dear friend Trina fetched us together with her baby Phoebe. The kids had fun, especially Coleen and Coy. As for Babu, she fell asleep (again).

There were boys playing basketball at the clubhouse and one of them was Ronnie Magsanoc (btw,he is a homeowner here). I was just humbled to see him play basketball with those ordinary people. He was not playing like a pro, instead he was just like any other guy playing basketball. I even saw him coaching his teammates. It was cool to see him like that. I said to myself,”What a good person he is, no sign of being a star,”

Whenever I see great people like him, acting like a nobody, the more I see them as somebody. We should all be like that. I believe that we are all equal- no matter what age, status, social class we are in, sex, occupation or whatever educational attainment we have reached, we are all the same. We all breathe in the same air, live in the same planet, eat food from common sources, fart undeniably, sweat salty water, snore loudly, sneeze like a cat, excrete smelly poops and may even have bad breath in the morning. We are all the same. So no one should put themselves higher than anybody else. The more you put yourselves above the rest, the more people would look down on you.

So, lets be like Ronnie Magsanoc. Hats off to you, Sir!

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Every time I feel uncomfortable or feel like complaining about the situation I am stuck with, this line would always pop into my mind, “Araw-araw, adjust!” My dear friend Jeng told me about this. Her mother would remind them this whenever a small problem would arise in their family.

Adjust. What a very interesting word. So what does adjust really mean? Adjust is a verb that means “To adapt or conform, as to new conditions” or “to adapt to a new environment”. Our lives are not perfect. We are always faced with trials that make us feel upset, frustrated or challenged. So what do we have to do then? Adjust. We have to adjust our way of thinking, our way of believing, our actions and even our state of mind in order for us to survive and move on to the next level of our journey.

Adjust. We have to learn to adjust in order to live with other people; to learn new techniques; to solve petty problems and even gigantic ones; to open our minds to innovation; to bury the past and look into the future; to heal the pain you are feeling inside you; to love the unlovable; to accept our mistakes and other people’s mistakes; to understand the why of things; to comprehend why you are here and not there; to confirm in yourself that you are mature and not otherwise; to make yourself believe that you can do it and no matter what happens you can and will do it; to stop procrastination; to be yourself; to in other words, to make life easier.

Adjust. We should not take for granted this six-lettered word. If we only absorb, digest and fully understand what this means, life would be a piece of cake. So, adjust!

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When we watched Lea’s concert last Friday, we had this very annoying experience with a monster sitting right behind my sister’s seat. This monster happened to be an old lady.

Encounter #1:

The girl beside her was talking to her friend in a sort of loud voice. The old lady said angrily in a louder voice, ” Excuse me! I want to listen to the music here!” So the girls just kept quiet all through out the concert.

Encounter #2:

When Lea was singing the song of Menudo,“If you’re not here (by my side)”, my sister wanted to raise her hands up and sing with Lea as Lea requested some audience participation to make the mood livelier and more fun. So my sister decided to raise her hands up and sway with the music when the monster complained again. The monster said to my sister,”Excuse me, don’t get too excited, I cannot see!” So my sister just put down her hands in disappointment and replied with an, “OK.”

Encounter #3:

A couple of late comers came and stood by the monster’s row. The monster was so upset that they (she with her son or daughter, I think) had to stand up to let the late comers pass and go to their seats. She reprimanded the late comers in a disgusted voice and said,” My God, next time you should have come earlier when you know that your seats are somewhere in the middle!”

After Lea sang her last song, everyone gave her a standing ovation. Then, the monster with her companions immediately moved out from their seats and headed back to the door.

What a relief! All of us, together with the girls who sat beside her, were so happy that they left their seats already. The girls said,“Yehey! Salamat naman at umalis na sya noh! Nakakainis! Hindi tuloy kami makatawa ng maayos!” Then my sister said, “Yes wala na siya! Kaasar talaga!”

That lady was a real monster. She was so annoying! What a killjoy! She should have bought the seat nearest the stage and watched there all by herself. As much as we wanted to respect an old lady like her, we couldn’t because with that kind of attitude, she doesn’t deserve to be treated nicely. Hmp!

Well, fast karma. Because after Lea sang her supposedly last song, the audience (as always) shouted “More!More!” so Lea went back and sang another song. Then I saw the monster watching from farthest seat of the orchestra area. Hahaha! She should have stood there the whole time.

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Everybody wants a perfect marriage. A perfect family. But there is no such thing as perfect family or a perfect marriage. They say that it is the major role of the wives/mothers to keep their marriage/family intact. They say that when a marriage fails or a family becomes broken, it is most likely that the wife/mother has reached the end of her understanding. She has reached the end of her patience. She has reached the end of her persistence in saving her marriage. Her family.

I feel sorry for a friend who has reached the end of understanding her husband’s flaws. I feel sorry that she has reached the end of trying to save her marriage for her kids. I feel sorry that she is having a hard time now trying to justify the greatest decision she has done for her family, and that is leaving her husband. I feel sorry that she had to resort to that very painful decision.

I know that resorting to that very painful decision was the last thing in your mind. I know that you have invested so much in your marriage and in your family. I know that you are in pain seeing your family like this. I know that you are trying your best in justifying the act you have done. And I also know that what you did was right.

Everything you did was for your family, especially for your kids. I know that you are torn between so many things that maybe, just maybe, you want to give up on what you believe is right. I am with you. My prayers are with you. Do not give up the fight. Our children deserve to be with responsible and model parents. You may be crying now but for sure this stage of your life would soon be history. When you look back, you might be smiling because you have surpassed this very great test of your faith.

Hang on. Hold on. You are not alone in this journey. We are with you. God is with you. Look up and smile for you are loved so much.

(I feel sorry and I am sorry too, if I have been vocal about your situation. I respect your privacy but I am just so worried about you and your kids that I needed to ask our other friends to pray for you. Thank you for trusting me. Again, I am sorry again.)

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Enough of those negative vibes.

It’s time to be back to normal.

The Secret, please come in.

Just stay here.

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I just got a call from my mother this morning telling me about a really unbelievable news. Ms. Maan called her saying that they are considering the idea of filing a law suit against us because they are greatly affected by the email/ blog circulating the internet now. I was still asleep when my mother called and when I heard her news, I just replied with a plain, “Ah, OK. Eh di mag demanda sila.” Then we hung up.

What?! They are going to file a law suit against us? me in particular? for what? for my blog? Are they in their right minds? So what’s the ground for that law suit? Hello! I think we should be the one doing that since we were the customers, we were the ones badly affected at first because of their own mistakes. Besides, everything in the blog was true and I am entitled to my own opinion.

I just could not believe this. Actually, I could not help but just laugh at this idea. Instead na mag apologize sila ng maayos at ayusin ang kanilang mga policies or reprimand their employees, nakuha pang mag plano ng kaso laban sa’min. What could be weirder than that? Baliktad na yata ang mundo.

You know, mature people appreciate criticisms positively. They make themselves better by humbling down because of their mistakes, apologize, and move forward by trying not to commit the same mistakes all over again. But people full of pride, who could not accept any failure nor any mistakes respond differently. They either fight back or take revenge on the persons whom they have hurt.

We still have several complains against them but I did not mention it anymore since the two reasons were the main issues. Hay naku. Goodluck na lang sa mga taong concerned.

I have nothing else to say but, May the Force of God be with you!

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